Five problems with Marrying an Asian Women

No relationship is perfect, so I’m not Asian bashing here. I love Asians, as well as people of almost all cultures and nationalities. I’d just like to bring light to some frequently mentioned issue that people have spoken about to me, and that I have seen firsthand, so  that it could perhaps prepare some innocent young man from getting into something that he knows little about.

·         No matter how long an Asian woman lives in your country, most of them will spend their lives dreaming about the day that they can own a house in their native country.  Be prepared to supply that house, or at least participate in the fulfillment of that dream.

·         Their family back home will often seem more important to them than you are. Unless of course you are supporting their families. But then you will still feel less important than their families anyway. It’s kind of a catch 22. The problem is solved if the woman makes more, or at least as much as the man in the relationship.

·         The young are trained to be the Social Security System for the old in Asia. The need to contribute to the elders back home is ingrained and difficult to change. Most of the time it is rightfully difficult to change this, as the people back home are living in poverty. Would you want a wife who really didn’t care about her parents or family? Probably not.

·         Many of the Asian women that move to a Western country either do not have enough education to earn a decent living, or wind up working in jobs that are less rewarding than the jobs they had back home.

This short list revolves around finances.  There is a much longer list available for free at http://www.AsianWomenInfo.com . I hope this helps someone out there.

If you asked a Filipino what they thought about these items, most would say, “What’s so strange about that?”  But if you asked an American or European they may think that this list is very strange indeed. All countries and cultures have their own beliefs. Where they originated is often untraceable. Although some of the following may have some basis in fact, much of it seems to be based in superstition rather than reality.

Not long ago I read an article about how Asian women are despised by American women. The “reason” behind this is that they feel Asian girls are stealing their men. They dig up any old dirt on them, they regard them as whores because some of them are unfaithful, they regard them as noisy because some of them fight; despite the fact that this occurs within their own society among their own people.

This article is entitled "SO YOU WANT TO DATE AN ASIAN GIRL?"

Why have I written this article you might ask ?

Well I've dated many different women from many different cultures (Asian,
Latina, African American, Caucasian American, Caucasian-European) and
let me tell you there are some major differences between the culture
you're used to and a different female from a different culture.